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• Dec 30, 2023

Find A Grave Sucks
All these posts from Findagrave contributors going on about how hard they work harvesting graves makes my French butt tired. These people live on Findagrave because they r addicted. There is also a certain sense of satisfaction sticking their noses in other peoples business. What they really need is professional help and a long vacation from Findagrave.

• Dec 28, 2023

Graveyard trolls
U make a memorial for a loved one. Findagrave in turn gives it to one of their
top troll contributors. Consequently u forfeit any control to what u created. Some people collect stamps. Findagrave trolls
collect dead bodies. Way too much drama.

Unfair Removal of photos and flowers on Memorial Tributes!
It’s ongoing everyday, they remove my photos, flowers and everything as a Tribute to my deceased loved one’s!
I’ve made contributions which I’m sorry, I did! At this point I’d like to remove my beautiful Memorial Tributes’ because
Find a Grave’ has lack of respect for both the family and deceased! Tired of the discrimination and the daily sabotage
of all the above mentioned! Nevertheless.. no one really looks up Find a Grave’ anyway.
I feel an injustice has been repeatedly, by done to them. Fed up with their ridiculous rules. It’s just nonsense!
Their lack of regard for supporters feelings, never ceases to amaze at this point!

The pits
FindAGrave lures unsuspecting people Into their tangled web of deceit with the promise of creating a "free" online virtual Memorial in memory of a deceased loved one. After the product is finished the creator is booted of the pictures and replaced with one of FindAGrave's major contributors.

Once in the power seat these so called experts trash the Memorial with info swiped from the net - time sensitive data not limited exclusively but may include previous marriages, ex spouses, children biologjcal
and otherwise, gender reassignment, church affiation, annual income - that sort of thing.

After all info is catalouged most of it is sent to LSD aka Mormon Church in Salt Lake City. Yes, FindAGrave is run by Mormons who take genealogy seriously. It earns them Brownie points to get them into heaven.

So what becomes to your file ? it is used for a variety of things ranging from rebaptizing the dead into the Mormon faith through a strange ritual with a Mormon Bishop presiding to marketing; or just archieved for general use.

If you don't like the posture here too bad. All you were promised was a "free" memorial. Get used to it. Nothing is free in this life. If u complain too much your account will be suspended; or depending what mood they are in you could be banned and threatened with legal action.

I am 75 years old and have been banned twice from FindAGrave. The1st time was about ten years ago when I went round and round with one of FindAGrave's experts on where my Grandparents r buried. (I was in the room when OMA died, I closed her eyes and signed the death certificate. Personally, not to pat myself on the back but in this scenario I know a bit more than one of FindAGrave:s bozos.)

The second ban was about 3 weeks ago I asked a Megan Heyl to turn my parents , grandparents and an infant son that I initially
created back to family members or remove the smutty tabloid kind of data Megan Heyl added . Megan Heyl refused. When I protested FindAGrave banned me and threatened legal action for stalking Megan Heyl.

May I again reiterate I am 75 years old and not afraid of FindAGrave or Megan Heyl. Furthermore I am not.impressed with Megan Heyl's letters from a medicore 4 year Michigan college

One thing that amazes me is FindAGrave's rationale to justify all the snooping... They
r only helping. When I was in kindergarten centuries ago there was such a thing called protocol. If you needed to use the bathroom
you raised your hand and asked. Despite what FindAGrave say manners have never gone out of style. U just don't do it on the floor and expect someone else to clean it
up. So you have more time to chalk up yet
another memorial hoping to make the million mark.
The pits

Revdex.com: I have reviewed the response made by the business in reference to complaint ID [redacted] , and find that this resolution is satisfactory to me This is exactly what I wanted Find A Grave, Incto doI looked up the records and see that they have in fact taken care of this and merged as requestedI really appreciate it being taken care of so quickly!This complaint can be closed as resolved Sincerely, [redacted] ***

Revdex.com: I have reviewed the response made by the business in reference to complaint ID [redacted] , and find that this resolution is satisfactory to me Sincerely, [redacted]

Title: Allison, Executive Office Response Team Contact Phone: ###-###-#### Contact Email: [redacted] @ancestry.com February 17, RE: [redacted] -- [redacted] To Whom It May Concern, Thank you for forwarding Ms***’s complaint to usWe have carefully reviewed the request and have the following response At Find a Grave, we strive to always provide excellent customer service and sincerely regret any frustration that Ms [redacted] has experienced in this situation We appreciate your patience while we have reviewed your concerns and inquiriesWe have located, and responded to the emails you sent to ***@findagrave.comWe have also removed the photos that were added by you, from the memorials in question At this time we are unable to fulfill your request, because it is outside of the transfer guidelines, and the current manager of the memorial page is an active member on the siteIf you have transfer requests that fall within the transfer guidelines (see link below for transfer guidelines) you are welcome to contact us at [redacted] @findagrave.com, and we will be happy to mediate those transfers for you Please note you are always able to add any information to the memorial page by using the edit tab in the upper right cornerYou can also add a memorial to a personal virtual cemetery To learn more about the transfer guidelines, please click on the link provided: http://www.findagrave.com/cgi-bin/fg.cgi?page=listFaqs# If you have any questions regarding this or any other matters pertaining to Ancestry, please do not hesitate to contact us at ###-###-#### Sincerely, Allison Executive Response Team Ancestry

Contact Name and Title: Jill, Executive Office Response Team Contact Phone: ###-###-#### Contact Email: [redacted] June 28, RE: [redacted] – [redacted] To Whom It May Concern, Thank you for forwarding Mr***’s complaint to usWe have carefully reviewed the request and have the following response We apologize for the frustrations that Mr [redacted] has encountered with our Find a Grave websiteAfter speaking with our Find a Grave department we have determined that Mr [redacted] may contact them directly by sending an email to [redacted] The email should include his desire to merge the two records created for his motherUpon request, Mr [redacted] can be made administrator of his mother’s memorial Again, we apologize for the frustrations that Mr [redacted] has experiencedIf you have any questions regarding this or any other matters pertaining to Ancestry.com, please do not hesitate to contact us at ###-###-#### Sincerely, Jill Executive Response Team Ancestry.com

Contact Name and Title: Katrina, Findagrave Curator Contact Email: [email protected], [email protected] July 31, RE: [redacted] ***: ­ [redacted] To Whom It May Concern, Thank you for forwarding Mr***’s response to usWe have carefully reviewed his response and have the following comments As a company, we strive to serve our customers’ best interestsWe apologize for any inconveniences that have occurred from this situation The memorials in Yonah Memorial Gardens were just one example of memorials being placed in cemeteries where the person is not buried Mr [redacted] has added other memorials to incorrect cemeteries, even after being warned about this action Adding information to Findagrave is a violation of our Community Rules or Terms of ServiceWe expect our members to treat each other with respect and kindness, as stated in our Community Rules The action of adding negative comments to his member biography is a violation of these rulesFindagrave will not be reinstating [redacted] ***’s member account due to these multiple violations Of course, we wish [redacted] the best going forward in his genealogical endeavors Sincerely, Katrina Curator, Findagrave.com

Contact Name and Title: Find A Grave Senior Administration- Find A Grave Curators Contact Email: [email protected], [email protected] December 22, RE: Customer Service Issues To Whom It May Concern, Thank you for forwarding [redacted] ’s communication to usWe have carefully reviewed this request and have the following response As a company, we strive to serve our customers’ best interestsWe apologize for any inconveniences that have occurred from this situation and appreciate the opportunity for communicating this resolution The member, [redacted] , has violated our Terms of Service or Community rules This has happened on multiple occasions The result of which was losing access to her member account This member has been given three opportunities, after she agreed to our Terms of Service and Community Rules, to have her account access restored This last violation was the fourth and final violation [redacted] has been sent an outline of her violations with explanation and details of why her account will not be restored That outline was sent on November 6, We will not be reinstating [redacted] ’s member account on Find A Grave Our Terms of Service state, “you grant Find A Grave and its Group Companies a perpetual, non-exclusive, transferable, sublicensable, royalty-free, world-wide license to host, store, copy, publish, distribute, provide access to and otherwise use such material, including, hosting and access on co-branded services of that material, and to use the data contained in that material as search results and to integrate that data into the Service or other services as Find A Grave or the Group Companies deem appropriate.” Additionally our Terms of Service state, “You acknowledge and agree that we may preserve any User Provided Content and may disclose any User Provided Content (including its origin) if we believe that it is required to do so by law or that such preservation or disclosure is reasonably necessary to: (a) comply with legal process or governmental requests; (b) enforce the Terms; (c) respond to claims that any Content violates the rights of third parties; or (d) protect the rights, property, or safety of the Websites, the users of the Websites, or the public.” Lastly, our Terms of Service relay, “These Terms shall govern the relationship between you ("you") and Find A GraveBy accessing or using the Websites or the services that we provide via the Websites ("Service"), you are concluding a legally binding agreement with us, based on these Terms, including all terms, conditions and policies incorporated herein by referenceIf you don't agree with any of these Terms, or if you have any objections to our Privacy Statement you must not use the Service or the Websites.” Find A Grave continues its mission to provide a collaborative community where members can contribute memorials and record burial dispositions If you have any questions regarding this or any other matters pertaining to Find A Grave, please do not hesitate to contact senior administration directly at [email protected] Sincerely, Find A Grave Curators

Contact Name and Title: Katrina, Find A Grave Curator Contact Email: [email protected], [email protected] November 14, RE: [redacted] complaint- [redacted] To Whom It May Concern, Thank you for forwarding [redacted] ’s complaint to usWe have carefully reviewed this request and have the following response As a company, we strive to serve our customers’ best interestsWe apologize for any inconveniences that have occurred from this situation and appreciate the opportunity for communicating this resolution The memorials for [redacted] and [redacted] located on Findagrave, do not contain information that can be held under copyrightThe memorial for [redacted] does not include a biography The memorial for [redacted] does not contain a biography The memorials also do not contain photographs This complaint has been resolved as all information that may have been plagiarized must have been removed, before we received this complaint On Find A Grave, any memorial can be added by any member, as long as it is not a duplicate memorial A member does not need to be related in order to add a memorial Find A Grave continues its mission to provide a collaborative community where members can contribute memorials and record burial dispositions If you have any questions regarding this or any other matters pertaining to Find A Grave, please do not hesitate to contact me directly at [email protected] Sincerely, Katrina Curator Findagrave.com

? Title: Allison, Executive Office Response Team Contact Phone: [redacted] Contact Email: [redacted] @ancestry.com August 10, RE: Billy M [redacted] -- [redacted] To Whom It May Concern, This account was placed on a hold because it was thought to be a duplicate account which is not allowed on Find-a-GraveWe have restored access to the account as of Saturday, August 1st We apologize for any inconvenience this situation may have caused MrM*** Sincerely, Allison Executive Response Team Ancestry

Title: Jill, Executive Office Response Team Contact Phone: ###-###-#### Contact Email: [redacted] June 28, RE: [redacted] ***– [redacted] To Whom It May Concern, Thank you for forwarding Mr***’s response to usWe have carefully reviewed the information and have the following response We have merged Mr***’s mother’s Find a Grave memorial with the duplicate memorial created by Ms [redacted] We have also made Mr [redacted] the administrator of his mother’s memorialHe should receive an email confirmation from our Find a Grave team shortly We regret the frustration caused by this situation and appreciate his patience If you have any questions regarding this or any other matters pertaining to Ancestry, please do not hesitate to contact us at ###-###-#### Jill Executive Response Team Ancestry

Complaint: [redacted] I am rejecting this response because: The grouping of memorials I put in the Yonah cemetery were changed to burial unknownI made a simple mistake and have corrected itThe derogatory comment was that I called another Find a Grave member the worst Find a Graver because although I submitted proof of burial the member refused to correct the memorials, and although Find a Grave says it will correct discrepancies has still NOT corrected the memorials in question even though I submitted proof of disposition.Find a Grave accused me of submitting memorials, which I did not, as evidenced by the fact they didn't mention it this time, an outright lie about me Sincerely, [redacted] ***

Title: Allison, Executive Office Response Team Contact Phone: ###-###-#### Contact Email: [redacted] @ancestry.com December 10, RE: [redacted] -- [redacted] To Whom It May Concern, Thank you for forwarding Mr [redacted] ’ complaint to usWe have carefully reviewed the request and have the following response At Find a Grave, we strive to always provide excellent customer serviceWe sincerely regret any frustration that Mr [redacted] has experienced in this situation We would ask that Mr [redacted] please send us the following so we may review his request: Your information as it appears exactly on our website The URL address where your information is found on our website URL stands for Uniform Resource Locator, which is the technical name for an Internet addressThe following are examples of URLs: http://www.ancestry.com/trees/ http://www.ancestry.co.uk/search/rectype/vital/pallot/mainmarriage.htm http://ancestry.custhelp.com/cgi-bin/ancestry.cfg/php/enduser/std_adp.php?p_faqi... A URL merely specifies the location of an object on the Internet and is located at the top of your internet screen when you are viewing the information on the website If Mr [redacted] has any remaining questions or concerns regarding this or any other matters pertaining to Find a Grave, please do not hesitate to contact us at ###-###-#### Allison Executive Response Team Ancestry

Contact Name and Title: Katrina, Find A Grave Curator Contact Email: [email protected], [email protected] November 14, RE: [redacted] , complaint # [redacted] To Whom It May Concern, Thank you for forwarding [redacted] ’s communication to usWe have carefully reviewed this request and have the following response As a company, we strive to serve our customers’ best interestsWe apologize for any inconveniences that have occurred from this situation and appreciate the opportunity for resolution In the original complaint [redacted] stated, “I requested them to either remove this obituary that does not reflect my mom's wishes, or remove all reference to me and my immediate family.” We removed all reference to [redacted] are her immediate family We also locked the biography field so that the manager could not adjust the biographyWe have apologized to [redacted] and explained that we are running behind on email at this timeHer emails were found and processed along with her first request There were other requests in her emails such as “I respectively request that all information about me and my immediate family ( [redacted] , ***, and [redacted] ) be removed from this record and all other records on your site listed below: Find a Grave Memorial # [redacted] - [redacted] Find A Grave Memorial # [redacted] - [redacted] Find A Grave Memorial # [redacted] - [redacted] Find A Grave Memorial # [redacted] - [redacted] Find A Grave Memorial # [redacted] - [redacted] We removed all information about [redacted] and her family members from these memorials and prevented the member from adjusting the biography by locking that access [redacted] is now requesting that we remove this memorial from Find A Grave This memorial is managed by an immediate family member and cannot be removedWe can lock certain sections of the memorial if they are being abused When we are contact by the copyright holder of the photos that are located on the memorial page, then we can remove them We will need proof of ownership (such as the original photo) sent to us and then we will take action to remove the photograph These should be sent to [email protected] If the photo section of the memorial is being abused, we can lock access to that as well We allow immediate family members to manage memorials on Find A Grave We understand that immediate family members may have differing opinions about adding information online We do our best to find a solution in compromise, by locking certain sections of the memorialIf the manager of this memorial page violates any of our Terms of Service or Community Rules or abuses this memorial in any manner, we will take the necessary actionFind A Grave continues its mission to provide a collaborative community where members can contribute memorials and record burial dispositions [redacted] has been contacted directly through email as well If you have any questions regarding this or any other matters pertaining to Find A Grave, please do not hesitate to contact me directly at [email protected] Sincerely, Katrina Curator Findagrave.com

Contact Name and Title: Find A Grave Senior Administration- Find A Grave Curators Contact Email: [email protected] January 2, RE: Customer Service Issues To Whom It May Concern, Thank you for forwarding [redacted] ’s communication to usWe have carefully reviewed this request and have the following responseAs a company, we strive to serve our customers’ best interestsWe apologize for any inconveniences that have occurred from this situation and appreciate the opportunity for communicating this resolutionThe member, [redacted] , has violated our Terms of Service or Community rules This has happened on multiple occasions We have sent notification in each of these instances and the member has, each time, agreed to our Term of Service and Community Rules Here is a copy of the detailed email that explains the violations, sent to the member on November 6, “In February, you backdated memorials Your account access was locked You responded stating that you would not do this again Your account was reinstatedIn May, you were emailed about adding surviving spouses as pre-need memorialsIn March, you were emailed and asked not to add burial unknown memorials, or pre-needs, and only adding a memorial after you have searched for the memorial first and it is not found In May, you backdated memorials again and your account access was locked You emailed back saying you wouldn't violate the rules Your account was reinstatedThroughout the last half of 2015, many memorials made to the living were removed These were pre-need memorials made to people who are aliveIn December 2015, your account access was locked for violations of adding the living (even after the same memorials had been removed) You received a detailed email regarding your violations You agreed to all of our Terms of Service, our FAQ, and also agree not to add living people or burial unknowns to Finda A Grave Your account was reinstatedIn May, you added a memorial to a living person It was removed You added the same memorial an additional time after it was already removed Your account access was locked for this violation Your account was reinstated as you said you would no longer add memorials to the livingIn October, you continually added multiple memorials again after they had been removed (even multiple times) These were memorials to people who are alive, which you had agreed not to add to Findagrave Your account was permanently locked and you received an email stating that it would not be reinstated due to these recurrences and violations We hope that this helps you understand our decision not to reinstate your account.” This member has been given ample opportunities, after she agreed to our Terms of Service and Community Rules, to have her account access restored This last violation was the fourth and final violationWe will not be reinstating [redacted] ’s member account on Find A GraveFind A Grave continues its mission to provide a collaborative community where members can contribute memorials and record burial dispositionsIf you have any questions regarding this or any other matters pertaining to Find A Grave, please do not hesitate to contact us directly at [email protected] Sincerely, Find A Grave Curators

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