The UI sends a inspector to my house accusing, judging and bullying

The UI turned service on in my fiances name in November. They dont check their fax and never got his ID. They sent us a letter in April that we had 15 days to fax a copy of my fiances license his social security card which he did! Now their revenue protection JR robo cop inspector is being accusatory and belittling, a bully and morally judgmental because I used to be married, divorced in 1999, moved back in with my ex husband who died last year because I was laid off and unable to pay my high rent. I since then became involved with my now fiance who moved to CT from Long Island, and this inspector is harassing us and making my life a living hell. I owe a balance. SO WHAT! My fiance does not. He never had service before. SO WHAT! he is not me. He has every right to have service in his name since he is the worker, the apartment is in his name, and he is the person who set the account up. They are accusing me and him of fraud. That we are NOT a couple. That I am a liar. Questioning that I was with my late husband in 2013/2014 as if Im a whore for being with someone else now? Why cant my fiance have service? The bill is being paid. We are not defrauding anyone. If the UI wants to give me a job so that I can pay my old debts please do. I would be happy to work and pay you what I owe from years ago. But DONT ACCUSE ME OF BEING A LIAR OR MY FIANCE! Dont judge my moral situation as if this bully disagrees with my lifestyle and that Ia am not married but living with him in sin. Dont accuse me of doing anything illegal because all I have done was move to an apartment with my significant other who has NEVER had service with the UI until he moved to CT in November. I am contacting the media, the Better business beaura, and an attorney who will advise me on my rights because I have it taped on my phone and his attitude was disgusting. His accusations were threatening, His judgement was belittling and unacceptable and if this is how the UI represents themselves then their demeanor and behavior is insulting and appalling not to mention degrading, unprofessional and inexcusable too.. How dare anyone feel they have the right to speak to someone in this manner. Who I sleep with is my business. And if I call him my husband is my business. It is not a crime to call someone a husband or wife and not have a piece of paper from Joe Blow making it legal. We refer to each other as married. SO WHAT! The bill is being paid. We are not criminals. And I am not going to allow some JR wanna be cop treat me as such. This is not acceptable